Spice Up Valentine’s Day With the Best Sexy Gifts for Lovers

Sex toys and accessories can be a huge benefit to most people’s sex lives, but we don’t talk about them openly enough. That’s a shame, because here at WIRED, we have many thoughts on all the gadgets you can use to spice up your romantic relationships or share your joy with others.

Whether you’re buying for a partner, getting a gift for a friend who could use a little more self-care, or picking up a gag gift, sex toys can be a thoughtful option. Few things show you care quite as much as helping someone live their most pleasurable life. We’ve picked many of our favorite lingerie and date-night subscription boxes, and sex toys, including vibrators and suction toys. This list is body-agnostic—we have toys and gifts for every kind of genitalia and couple.

For more suggestions, don’t forget to check out our full list of the Best Sex Toys, Best Vibrators, Best Suction Toys, Best Sex Machines, Best Lubes, and Best Condoms.

Updated February 2025: We’ve added the Aurelia and Underclub subscription boxes and The Adventure Challenge, Couples Edition. We removed the discontinued Motorbunny Buck.

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